Nature of Personal Reality ... quotes

"You cannot escape your own attitudes, for they will form the nature of what you see. Quite literally you see what you want to see; and you see your own thoughts and emotional attitudes materialized in physical form. If changes are to occur, they must be mental and psychic changes. These will be reflected in your environment. Negative, distrustful, fearful, or degrading attitudes toward anyone work against the self."

So powerfully, amazingly, TRUE.  The evidence is overwhelmingly real.  But don't think this limits you to observing yourself.  I've learnt that this is exceptionally applicable in being with others ... and that changes can, and do, often times happen very quickly in relationships when psychic, mental, emotional changes are undertaken deliberately.

"Telepathy operates constantly. If you continually expect an individual to behave in a particular manner, then you are constantly sending him telepathic suggestions that he will do so. Each individual reacts to suggestion."

And some people react quickly, others must have long conversations about X & Y , but mostly ... if you're clear and honest and direct and loving and kind ... people respond naturally, without restrictions because they respond not to your WORDS but to your INTENT and ENERGY.  But the words are just symbols and they are very handy.