Oh..ok...I get it. I think I'm pretty darn good at recognizing my beliefs now, and it's so much easier to get alone with others since I understand that that is all they are. There's preference in beliefs, but no right or wrong beliefs. Makes for a pretty calm life really, as nothing phases me much anymore! The only problem that I have is dropping a belief that isn't in line with my old views and people are going ...hey what?.

Like left or right in politics. I used to be hard hard left...now it's hmmm whatever left right sideways... everyone's got their own preference!
If I do by chance run into someone who themselves is ranting or raging about something, I look at that as a message to ME. What is it about what they are mad about am I trying to point out to myself? Especially, eeeeeeespecially if they do manage to get me emotionally worked up in a negative way. Then whatever belief it is, really needs to be addressed, and I release it!
ANYWAY good good good for you, keep up the aha's! We could all use more of those moments!